1.Where did you grow up？ This is a great icebreaker that gets someone talking about the past， which often puts others at ease。

　　1。你是在哪長(zhǎng)大的？這是非常好的一句開(kāi)場(chǎng)白，可以讓對(duì)方談?wù)撈疬^(guò)去，這樣對(duì)話雙方會(huì)比較輕松。

　　2。 Do you have any pets？ People love their pets， and inquiring about them encourages further conversation。 And， even if the person you‘re chatting with doesn’t have any， it‘s still a good start。

　　2。你養(yǎng)寵物嗎？人們都喜歡寵物，問(wèn)起他們的寵物能讓對(duì)話進(jìn)行下去。即使對(duì)方?jīng)]有寵物，這也不失為一個(gè)好的開(kāi)場(chǎng)白。

　　3。 What‘s your favorite book？ Instead of asking what people are reading right now， which can be a bit too intimate， asking about a book they love can create a mutual connection。

　　3。 你最喜歡的書是哪一本？ 如果直接詢問(wèn)對(duì)方正在閱讀的書，顯得太過(guò)親密。而問(wèn)他們喜歡的書利于在彼此之間建立聯(lián)系。

　　4。 What‘s the first thing you do after work？ Do you kick off your shoes？ Hit the gym？ Asking how people relax makes them feel relaxed。

　　4。 下班后做的第一件事是什么？是踢掉鞋子？去健身？問(wèn)人們?nèi)绾畏潘赡茏屗麄兏械接淇臁?/p>

　　5。 What‘s your dream job？ Even at a corporate gathering， inquiring about someone’s dream job is a fun way to get a conversation started。

　　5。 你理想的職業(yè)是什么？即使是在公司聚會(huì)上，問(wèn)理想職業(yè)也是開(kāi)始對(duì)話的一種有效方式。

　　6。 If you could live anywhere in the world， where would it be？ Not everyone gets to travel tons， making this a fun question for anyone。

　　6。 如果你可以住在世界上任何一個(gè)地方，你會(huì)住在哪？不是每個(gè)人都有機(jī)會(huì)到處旅行，這個(gè)問(wèn)題能讓大家都開(kāi)心起來(lái)。

　　7。 What countries have you traveled to？ Even if you haven‘t traveled the world， asking if others have encourages someone to share memories。

　　7。 你去過(guò)哪些國(guó)家？即使你沒(méi)有出去旅游過(guò)，問(wèn)問(wèn)別人可以讓他們分享回憶。

　　8。 Do you like to cook？ Asking about favorite dishes and culinary adventures sparks delicious dishing。

　　8。 你喜歡烹飪嗎？問(wèn)問(wèn)對(duì)方最喜歡的菜肴，烹飪方面的經(jīng)歷總能引起有趣的話題。

　　9。 What‘s your favorite food？ Everyone eats， making this an icebreaker that works anywhere， anytime。

　　9。 你最喜歡的食物是什么？民以食為天，這個(gè)問(wèn)題百試不靈。

　　10。 What‘s your favorite drink？ A wonderfully basic question， asking about best-loved beverages works at any gathering。

　　10。 你最喜歡的飲料是什么？ 絕妙的常規(guī)問(wèn)題。任何聚會(huì)上問(wèn)這個(gè)問(wèn)題總不會(huì)錯(cuò)。

　　11。 Do you have a favorite local restaurant？ This is a great conversation to get people talking about their favorite local hangouts， which puts everyone at ease。

　　11。 你有最喜歡的餐廳嗎？這個(gè)問(wèn)題能讓人們談?wù)撈鹑粘Ｐ蓍e的地方，使大家放松。

　　12。 What‘s your favorite movie？ You can find out a lot about a person when you chat about a favorite movie。 Follow it up with specific questions， such as scene stealers and actors in the flick。

　　12。 你最喜歡哪部電影？人們對(duì)電影的喜好能反映個(gè)人特點(diǎn)。接著問(wèn)些具體的問(wèn)題，比如誰(shuí)最搶戲，片中的演員等等。

　　13。 What movie are you dying to see？ Jump in with a question that involves everyone and will get a group chatting over new releases。

　　13。 哪一部電影你非看不可？這個(gè)問(wèn)題可以讓所有人都加入到對(duì)新影片的討論中。

　　14。 What are you watching on TV？ This is another question that won‘t offend and is open-ended， encouraging even the supershy to start chatting。

　　14。 你都看些什么電視節(jié)目？這又是一個(gè)比較中性的問(wèn)題，答案很開(kāi)放，讓那些性格內(nèi)向的人也能加入討論。

　　15。 What‘s the last concert you went to？ Another easygoing question for one-on-one conversation or for jumping into a group conversation。 And it’s a fun way to find out what kinds of music your new friends listen to。

　　15。 你最近去的音樂(lè)會(huì)是那一場(chǎng)？這個(gè)話題不僅適合兩個(gè)人談?wù)摚鳛樾〗M討論的話題也完全沒(méi)問(wèn)題，還能讓你知道新朋友的音樂(lè)偏好。

　　16。 What‘s the craziest thing you’ve ever done？ For those who are ready to make a bold first impression， this is a question that gets attention and can lead to fun conversation。

　　16。 你做過(guò)的最瘋狂的事是什么？如果你想讓人印象深刻的話，這是一個(gè)能夠吸引注意而且制造樂(lè)趣的話題。

　　17。 If you were stranded on a deserted island and you could have only one item， what would it be？ Yes， a classic one-liner， but this convo starter always gets a good answer。

　　17。 如果你被困在沙漠中但只能帶一樣?xùn)|西，你會(huì)帶什么？沒(méi)錯(cuò)，就是這個(gè)經(jīng)典的問(wèn)題，但通常你會(huì)得到一個(gè)好回答。

　　18。 What‘s your favorite season？ Here’s a question that works well with the “it‘s always easy to talk about the weather” concept。 Follow up by asking about the current weather conditions， and you have a conversation。

　　18。 你最喜歡的季節(jié)是哪一個(gè)？ 這個(gè)問(wèn)題驗(yàn)證了那句“如果不知道說(shuō)什么，問(wèn)天氣總是沒(méi)錯(cuò)的。”這之后再問(wèn)現(xiàn)在的天氣狀況，對(duì)話就開(kāi)始啦。

　　19。 Do you speak any other languages？ Asking a semipersonal question encourages others to share information about themselves without feeling guarded。

　　19。 你會(huì)說(shuō)其他語(yǔ)言嗎？問(wèn)一些比較私人的話題，可以讓對(duì)方分享一些信息但又不會(huì)過(guò)度防備。

　　20。 Do you have anything fun planned for the weekend？ Make chatting easy by asking about future plans — without setting off a stalker vibe。 Keep it light and share your plans too。

　　20。 這個(gè)周末有什么計(jì)劃？關(guān)于未來(lái)打算的問(wèn)題讓對(duì)話變得輕松，但不要刨根問(wèn)底，給人居心叵測(cè)的感覺(jué)。盡量保證話題輕松，同時(shí)也分享你的計(jì)劃。

　　21。 Where‘s your favorite place to hang out in town？ Here is another fun way to start a conversation about your community without being threatening。 And it opens discussion to favorite restaurants， bars， and shops。

　　21。 鎮(zhèn)上最喜歡的去處？這又是一個(gè)有趣而不私人的開(kāi)場(chǎng)問(wèn)題。接著就可以討論最喜歡的餐廳，酒吧和商店。

　　22。 I like your shirt！ Where did you get it？ A genuine compliment makes anyone smile。

　　22。 我很喜歡你的襯衫，在哪買的？真誠(chéng)的稱贊能換來(lái)對(duì)方的笑臉。

　　23。 I can‘t place this song — do you know it？ Hey， even if you know the tune， asking someone else about the music playing is a simple start。

　　23。 我想不起來(lái)這首歌叫什么了——你知道嗎？ 哪怕你知道答案，問(wèn)對(duì)方這個(gè)問(wèn)題能輕松的讓你們開(kāi)始攀談。

　　24。 How long have you been at your job？ Even at a corporate event， asking others about their job titles， roles， and how long they have been at the company breaks the ice。

　　24。 你在現(xiàn)在的工作崗位上做了幾年？即使在公司活動(dòng)上，詢問(wèn)關(guān)于職位和工作時(shí)間也是很好的開(kāi)場(chǎng)白。

　　25。 Tell me about something that made you laugh this week。 Everyone loves a good laugh！ Asking about something that brought on a chuckle makes anyone smile。

　　25。 告訴我這星期讓你開(kāi)心的事情吧。人人都愛(ài)笑！討論點(diǎn)有趣的事能讓人開(kāi)懷一笑。

　　26。 If you had a million dollars， what would you do with it？ A bit more direct， but asking a specific question that requires thought can really make an impression。

　　26。 如果你有一百萬(wàn)美元，你會(huì)做什么？這問(wèn)題有點(diǎn)直接，不過(guò)這種需要思考的問(wèn)題通常能給人留下印象。

　　27。 How are you today？ Sure， this is a no-brainer question， but it gets people talking。

　　27。 今天怎么樣？好吧，這問(wèn)題有點(diǎn)沒(méi)水準(zhǔn)，但總能讓人說(shuō)點(diǎn)什么。

　　28。 Where is the best place you have ever visited？ Taking a vacation is always wonderful。 Asking someone new about a favorite destination is always an easy way to start talking。

　　28。 你去過(guò)最贊的地方是哪？假期絕對(duì)是個(gè)好話題，而問(wèn)人們最喜歡的地方讓談話很容易就開(kāi)始。

　　29。 Did you hear about （something trending in the news）？ Pick something pretty generic， remembering to stay away from politics and religion， and the conversation will get rolling。

　　29。 你聽(tīng)說(shuō)了（當(dāng)下熱點(diǎn)事件）嗎？挑一點(diǎn)比較大眾的問(wèn)題，記住不要提起政治和宗教，這樣對(duì)話就會(huì)開(kāi)始了。

　　30。 So， what‘s your story？ OK， this one is borderline pick-up line， but it’s also a direct approach for chatting。

　　30。 你有什么經(jīng)歷分享？這個(gè)開(kāi)場(chǎng)白不要輕易采用，不過(guò)也不失為一個(gè)讓對(duì)方開(kāi)口的方法。

　　31。 This place is awesome！ Have you been here before？ Complimenting the venue is a positive way to chat with others。

　　31。 這地方太棒了！你以前來(lái)過(guò)這嗎？稱贊場(chǎng)地也是打開(kāi)話匣子的好方法。

　　32。 If you could be an animal， what would you be and why？ Just don‘t roar after asking！ This question is also a fun and light way to break the ice。

　　32。 如果你能成為一種動(dòng)物，你會(huì)做什么，為什么？問(wèn)完問(wèn)題以后，千萬(wàn)別大笑。這是個(gè)有趣又輕松的話題。

　　33。 If you could invite a famous person over for dinner， who would it be？ Also an often-used convo starter， this question has lasted the test of time， which makes it a winner anywhere， anytime。

　　33。 如果你可以邀請(qǐng)一位名人共進(jìn)晚餐，你會(huì)邀請(qǐng)誰(shuí)？同樣是個(gè)經(jīng)典問(wèn)題，但畢竟經(jīng)過(guò)時(shí)間的考驗(yàn)，在任何時(shí)間，任何地點(diǎn)都是適用的。

　　34。 What‘s your favorite holiday？ Open and generic， a basic question is an easy way to start mingling。

　　34。 你最喜歡什么節(jié)日？普通的問(wèn)題最能開(kāi)始一段對(duì)話。

　　35。 What‘s the craziest thing you’ve ever eaten？ Here‘s another fun question that gets people talking！ And it’s a great question to use when you feel awkward joining a group that‘s already chatting。

　　35。 你吃過(guò)的最不可思議的東西是什么？這又是個(gè)讓人說(shuō)話的有趣問(wèn)題！當(dāng)別人已經(jīng)在討論時(shí)，這個(gè)問(wèn)題能幫你化解尷尬。

　　36。 What is one thing you couldn‘t live without？ Wine？ Chocolate？ Bread？ There’s no wrong answer to this question， which makes it another winner。

　　36。 離開(kāi)了什么你就無(wú)法生活？酒？巧克力？面包？這個(gè)問(wèn)題沒(méi)有固定答案，這也是為什么這是個(gè)好問(wèn)題的原因了。

　　37。 Have you ever won anything？ It feels good when you win something， so asking someone about this special moment encourages sharing。

　　37。 你有贏得過(guò)什么獎(jiǎng)勵(lì)嗎？能贏得什么總令人開(kāi)心，所以問(wèn)問(wèn)別人的類似經(jīng)歷，這有助于互相分享。

　　38。 Do you have any brothers or sisters？ Slightly personal without requiring too much info， asking others about their family is a smart way to make connections。

　　38。 你有兄弟姐妹嗎？有點(diǎn)私人，但又不會(huì)透露太多信息。詢問(wèn)對(duì)方的家庭能快速的和他建立起聯(lián)系。

　　39。 Have you ever met anyone famous？ A brush with a famous person is always a thrill， making talking about it with a stranger a fun icebreaker。

　　39。 你有碰到過(guò)名人嗎？ 和名人擦身而過(guò)總令人興奮，和陌生人討論這個(gè)話題再適合不過(guò)。

　　40。 Do you prefer texting， calling， or emailing？ Emailing！ This is actually a great question to ask someone after you have made a connection。 Follow up by asking for your new friend‘s phone number or email address。

　　40。 你是傾向于發(fā)短信，打電話，還是發(fā)郵件呢？郵件！如果你和對(duì)方熟悉起來(lái)的話，這絕對(duì)是個(gè)好問(wèn)題。之后你就可以問(wèn)問(wèn)新朋友的電話號(hào)碼和郵箱了。

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